Living with an insecure partner is difficult and can damage your mental health. Insecurity and loving an insecure man may be difficult for you.
You know you work hard to take care of your family and man and rarely have time for yourself or your hobbies. He doubts your motives and your sincerity no matter how hard you work.
constantly questions your motives
An insecure husband never forgets when you were out with friends or visited your mom. He often compares how many times you went out or got away to his. He thinks your outings count more than his if he goes out more.
Insecure partners' poisonous behavior drains relationships. Dealing with an insecure husband is difficult but achievable. Talk to an insecure person carefully and try to reason with him.
No matter how hard you try to fix a problem, he uses it as a forum to browbeat you. Insecure husbands do this.
Arguing rarely solves problems
He comes into the room and complements you on how you look before you can compliment him. You'll never get over not thanking him immediately. He will tell you that you had many chances to commend or thank him, but you remember that you were attacked before you could.
You missed his feelings and needs, therefore he gets irritated. You may tell him you can't read his mind, but he says "you should know this" because you've been together for a long time and this has happened before.
Insecure husbands require omniscience
He asks who you're calling before you even say a word. He hates when you react to a text without knowing who it's from or what it's about.
He wants to know everything
You prioritize him and your relationship and are receptive to his concerns about your time with close friends. You limit discussions and messaging with your pals, but he still maintains that you spend too much time with them and care more about them than him.
He envies your time with pals
Even when you try to avoid an argument with him, he appears to unearth your mistakes or bring out your illogic. No matter how you answer, he gets worse.
enjoys proving you wrong
If you don't fix your insecure husband, you'll soon burn out. You may decide to leave regardless of his aid or adjustments. Before you reach to that stage, focus on your resolve and self-esteem, then set some firm limits to change the relationship.